Did you know that phone sex began in the 1980s with phone companies introducing “dial-a-porn” numbers? The controversial set-up employed the first phone sex operator and helped launch a new wave in the adult industry. Are such adult services still operating today?
If you’re interested in becoming a phone sex operator, we’re happy to help guide you. The market is still robust, but there are a few factors to consider before you jump into the adult industry. Here are seven factors to consider before you send out an application.
1. What Erotic Concepts Are You Comfortable With?
The first thing you should consider is what erotic concepts you’re comfortable engaging with. Fetishes are varied, and some people are into things that you may not enjoy.
There’s a wide range that this could sit in. For example, some people may want something relatively minor, such as being berated. Humiliation and emasculation are famously popular, though niche, interests.
If someone calls with an S&M interest, are you comfortable demeaning them as they’re requesting? If not, you may want to look into what your company will allow.
Should you choose to freelance, you don’t need to worry about what a company says. There are many phone sex options that are freelance positions that will fit you better. Either way, be sure you know how to react if someone is pushing past a comfort zone.
2. Are You Comfortable Being Recognized?
It’s exceptionally rare to be recognized as a phone operator. Not only are the chances of someone you know calling the line low, but them recognizing you is equally low.
Still, it’s a good rule of thumb not to enter the adult industry unless you’re comfortable being recognized. How will you react if you know the person on the other end? Furthermore, what if you recognize them but they don’t recognize you?
You should plan for such a situation beforehand so you aren’t caught off-guard. While the chances are astronomically low, it’s always better to prepare.
3. Working Hours
Phone sex operation has peak hours at strange times. Some may prefer to call late at night when they’re getting ready for bed, or later. Others may use your service to start their morning off energetically.
Consider what times you’ll be available to work. If you have a highly restricted schedule, you may want to freelance. While you work on your own, you can find a company as a sex operator that provides better flexibility.
4. Set Taboos and Barriers
There’s more to knowing what you’re comfortable with than knowing how to react if someone’s fetish doesn’t match yours. What do you do if someone wants something taboo? Many people may call with interests or fetishes that one may consider morally gray.
For example, some may have an interest in “ageplay.“ While this is less common over the phone, are you comfortable engaging in such an interest?
There are countless other interests, preferences, and fetishes that you will encounter. Some may choose these fetishes solely for their taboo nature.
Beyond your comfort zone, set taboos and barriers that you won’t cross regardless of comfort. Enforce these should it become necessary. If a phone sex company is insisting you get past those taboos, you shouldn’t hesitate to find another company.
5. Do You Have A Quiet Space?
Phone sex is generally remote work. There aren’t many offices with cubicles of people all softly moaning into their headsets. Instead, you’ll almost certainly need to supply your own working space.
As such, you should consider what the workplace would need. It’s critical that the background be quiet in order to help provide a sense of immersion. Background fans, vehicles driving, or family members shouting will not be welcome.
Furthermore, it’s vital that you not be interrupted during a call. There are few things that will destroy the mood faster than a family member knocking on the door. Should you need to hang up in an emergency, you’ll likely lose the customer.
When starting an adult service, consider the area around you first and foremost. If you don’t have an area you can work, try to create one. Otherwise, try to do the best with what you have.
6. Where to Work
While looking at what restrictions a company will set, you may find yourself wondering where you’d like to work. What sort of qualities are important to you in the adult industry?
For example, the first thing many of us consider is pay. Do you know the company’s rates before you sign your contract?
One example is whether their pay is structured for hourly, by-call, or by call length. You should understand how they’ll pay you before you begin working. If they’re underpaying you, you may be tempted to break your contract.
Furthermore, consider what quality of life traits they may provide you with. Most sites will allow you to use an alias to protect your identity.
Not only does this help privacy, but it also stops “over-eager” customers from searching for your information. Many of us don’t like blending our work and out-of-work lives. As a phone sex operator, it’s more important that you keep these separate.
7. Experienced or Inexperienced
Finally, you should consider what experience level the company needs. Most companies don’t require intense or thorough experience from their sex operator employees.
However, some may want to see experience or interest on your resume. Think of what consists of experience when exploring your phone sex options. Have you worked in the adult industry before, or provided other adult services that may apply?
Becoming a Phone Sex Operator
Becoming a phone sex operator may feel daunting, but the barriers to entry are virtually non-existent. Look into the adult industry to see what phone sex options best suit your needs. Set barriers as a sex operator and don’t hesitate to enforce them.
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